Posts Tagged ‘trials’

Will God Give You More Than You Can Bear?

Posted in Caregiving, Grief and Grieving, Illness on March 15th, 2009 by Jim Hughes – Be the first to comment

Ron Edmondson started his blog post this way…

How many times has someone said to you, “God will never put more trials on you than you can bear”? I challenge you to show me that in the Bible.  The problem I have with this myth is that it keeps so many believers wondering why they can’t handle their problems, falsely believing they should be able to, because someone once told them the lie that God would not put more on them than they could bear.

He as an important point to make.  It’s important to reassess some of the statements that we all hear and maybe say often when we’re in difficult seasons.  This is one of them.  So put your thinking cap on and read the rest of what Ron had to say.

By the way, he writes lots of good practical stuff, so you may want to add his blog to stuff you check on from time to time.  Or just follow him on Twitter.

Why do bad things happen to good people?

Posted in Suffering on December 2nd, 2008 by Jim Hughes – 3 Comments
WHY?

WHY?

This question is almost as old as time itself.

And attempts to answer it have filled pages and books and libraries.

So you won’t be surprised when I tell you that I can’t tell you why bad things happen to good people.  Or why good things happen to bad people, which is sort of the same question.

What I do know is that good things happen to both good and bad people, and bad things also happen to both good and bad people.  I know it from personal experience, as do you.

But I also know it because the Bible tells me so.  The Bible tells stories about real people in real situations, and by reading these stories, that’s exactly what we see.

There’s even one whole book in the Older Testament about horrible things happening to a very good man.  Not just one thing, but a whole collection of bad things.  This good man, whose name was Job, had good friends who thought they had the “Why” of all this figured out.  So they explained the “Why” to Job.  Only they were wrong, totally wrong.  How do we know?  Because God himself told them so.

Their explanation was basically that bad things happen to people who do bad things, and that therefore, Job must have done bad things.  God said that isn’t the way things work here on Earth.

Jesus said the same thing in the Newer Testament.  It rains on the just and the unjust.

That’s the way it works here on Earth.  Bad things happen and good things happen.  To good people and to bad people.

So “Why?” is not the question to focus on.  How we handle life when stuff happens is what matters. That’s the lesson of Job.  And that’s the lesson I learn again and again from people I interact with who’ve had bad things happen to them.